A peer support space

R3l0ading...

R3l0ad is a non-judgemental social and peer support group for any blackpilled people, or self-proclaimed incels.
Our online support group is a space for involuntarily celibate people to have a chat and talk things through. These topics might include the following:
  • Loneliness
  • Dating and romance
  • Physical attractiveness and self-image
  • Dealing with rejection
  • Gender
  • Science
  • Finding resources to seek further psychological support beyond this group
We will challenge you…
  • Members of our team lead discussions on whatever topics you want to chat about, in a non-judgemental, welcoming, and open way.
  • We are not incels, and we don't agree with some of the ideas expressed in redpill spaces (some, not all).
  • Despite those ideological differences, we believe that's exactly what makes our conversations with you even more valuable.
  • The goal here is to learn from both sides. How can the Redpill and Bluepill come together to help each other?
WE ARE NOT PSYCHOLOGISTS OR COUNCELLORS! This is a peer-led initiative.
What we won't do is tolerate hate, or talk that frames other people as the enemy — but you are welcome exactly as you are. Showing up is the hard part, and you can do it anonymously. There's nothing to fix about you before you're allowed in.
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In crisis? Get help now →

The Group

How we meet, what to expect, and the ground rules that keep this a safe place to be honest.

What it is
Weekly peer support meetings
A facilitated, ~1 hour chat. You can talk or just listen. Cameras and real names optional. No one is put on the spot.
When
Thursdays, weekly — 1 hour
Online via video call. A new joining link is sent for each session after you get in touch. Start time where you are:
  • Auckland — 9:00pm
  • Sydney / Melbourne — 7:00pm
  • Tokyo — 6:00pm
  • Singapore / Hong Kong / Perth — 5:00pm
  • New Delhi — 2:30pm
  • Dubai — 1:00pm
  • Berlin / Paris / Johannesburg — 11:00am
  • London — 10:00am
  • UTC — 9:00am
  • New York — 5:00am
  • Los Angeles — 2:00am
Times can shift by an hour around daylight-saving changes — UTC (Thursday 09:00) is the anchor.
Cost
Free
Run by volunteers. We are peers, not clinicians — for mental-health treatment and psychological support, see the "Get Help Now" tab.
Safety
We prioritise safety.
We welcome any sort of rants, vents, or expressions of emotions without judgement. We are anti censorship. However, threatened and real violence towards the discussion leaders, your peers, or members of the public will result exit from the group. We welcome expressions of hatred and resentment! But only the verbal kind. Threatened violence or hostility will not be tolerated
Volunteering
Volunteering with us
If you are interested in being a discussion leader, please use this form to submit your expression of interest: submit an expression of interest.

Get Help Now

If you're in danger of hurting yourself or someone else, please reach out right now. These services are free, confidential, and staffed by people who want to help.

If your life is at immediate risk, call 000 (Australia) or your local emergency number. You deserve help, and reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Lifeline
24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention. Call or text any time.
13 11 14
Beyond Blue
Support for anxiety, depression, and feeling low. Phone and webchat, 24/7.
1300 22 4636
MensLine Australia
Telephone and online counselling for men dealing with loneliness, relationships, and emotional health. 24/7.
1300 78 99 78
13YARN
Crisis support line for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander people, run by First Nations crisis supporters. 24/7.
13 92 76
Your GP
A doctor can connect you to a Mental Health Treatment Plan and subsidised sessions with a psychologist. A good, low-pressure first step.
 
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